Women are often told they love too much or love the wrong kind of man. Love is now a diagnostic criteria for measuring mental health. If you love the unlovable, let another person’s desires take precedence over your own, or even worse, love someone who has hurt you, then you are likely love addicted, codependent, and emotionally unhealthy. Without question, a common perversion of love is dependent, demanding, and soulless in its giving, so that, in fact, it ceases to be love. What an odd thought—